Friday, June 17, 2011

Life is so unfair!

Today a friend lost her third baby.

Her first son died at 26 weeks, her second son at 18 weeks, and this sweet child at 20 weeks.  My heart is very heavy and sad for her today.  I just can't understand how this could continue to happen.  How can she be the 1 in 200 three times in a row.

It is just heartbreaking and so fucking unfair!!!


  1. I am so sorry to hear of your friend. I can't imagine how she feels. I'd like to think that babyloss is a one time thing and we are exempt from it happening again. If only it worked that way. So unfair:(

  2. That is so sad, my heart goes out to your friend. Becky said it well, I wish we could be exempt after one loss. :(

  3. I was just talking to my real life blm friend about how we feel like we take bullets for other people when we have multiple losses. I am so sorry for your friend. I definitely wish the loss could be spread around, if anything it might make for a lot more compassionate people in the world. My love to you and your friend~

  4. I'm so sorry. Life is indeed bloomin unfair. Much love to your friend, and to you too.x

  5. I can't even begin to immagine how she feels. Please give her a hug from me. I know... I'm no one, but reading this is really heartbreaking.