tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1158790863232483312.post5242409651303524643..comments2023-05-03T02:54:34.190-07:00Comments on My Search for Hope: EnvyShaina Gadowhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12111305243630637641noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1158790863232483312.post-63234373327642431732012-01-01T15:20:27.763-08:002012-01-01T15:20:27.763-08:00Beth, I am so sorry to hear about your loss and y...Beth, I am so sorry to hear about your loss and you are so fresh in this really sucky journey. I hope that through this blog and others that you can find some support and comfort know that you are not alone. I would be happy to talk to you more if you want, just let me know.Shaina Gadowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12111305243630637641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1158790863232483312.post-3535908072798255602011-12-06T09:52:32.890-08:002011-12-06T09:52:32.890-08:00Thank you for writing this. Our first child was s...Thank you for writing this. Our first child was stillborn about two weeks ago, and this is one of the major things I am struggling with -- the reality that there are loads of people who shouldn't be parents who have healthy babies...that there are people who abort their healthy babies...that there are parents who don't WANT to be parents. It seems so unfair that these people all have children, and yet our child, who we deeply loved and desperately wanted, is dead. I'm glad that I'm not alone in this struggle, although I would never wish it on anyone.Beth Moreyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17507326859684820743noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1158790863232483312.post-63100457709440101502011-11-04T14:19:30.718-07:002011-11-04T14:19:30.718-07:00I wish the "whys" and "what ifs&quo...I wish the "whys" and "what ifs" would go away as well. They drive me crazy. Yes, our reality sucks so bad. It definitely is not FAIR!<br />Thinking of you.Kimmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09643780768041940604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1158790863232483312.post-29422435124962318372011-11-02T19:02:38.742-07:002011-11-02T19:02:38.742-07:00Just wanted to let you know I was here, and I read...Just wanted to let you know I was here, and I read, and I am with you on the anger and not being able to move forward with many aspects of loss. Much love. ~LindsayJoyAndSorrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03923776278331956351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1158790863232483312.post-77138585753254754832011-11-02T16:14:21.755-07:002011-11-02T16:14:21.755-07:00yeh, the wanting to make sense of the living child...yeh, the wanting to make sense of the living child of people who shouldn't be parents, versus deserving parent losing their baby.... It's so hard to justify or make sense of. <br /><br />I used to think, before becoming pregnant again myself, that being pregnant = grieving with hope. I'm not so sure anymore. I seem to have lost confidence in my body's ability to carry and nurture a baby until May, and I hate that. I'm hopeful, but with reservations, which again, I hate.<br /><br />The incomplete family is one of the things I fear the most moving forward.Lj82https://www.blogger.com/profile/01067562341189588336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1158790863232483312.post-90665169753279492472011-11-02T11:53:00.453-07:002011-11-02T11:53:00.453-07:00Oh the envy, completely get it. It makes me so mad...Oh the envy, completely get it. It makes me so mad to see people like those 2 children that can have a healthy living baby who could care less and we sit here struggling through babyloss and want nothing more than to have a living healthy baby. Grrr!Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11917822168137274298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1158790863232483312.post-71853062593449780722011-11-02T10:24:22.832-07:002011-11-02T10:24:22.832-07:00I can relate to so much of what you said here. ((...I can relate to so much of what you said here. (((hugs)))Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04548457462997589508noreply@blogger.com